Dream Girl... Dream Guy... (part 1)

Have you ever had a dream girl or guy?
Here's a piece of good news for you....... YOU'RE A HUMAN!!!

For those who never had a dream girl or guy or had sorta of a crush on anyone or object or animal before... I'm not saying that you're not human, (unless you're a hamster who can read) eh... you're just unique.. haha..
So don't be so sad, you'll grow up and have a crush one day.


For those who don't know what the word "crush" mean, let me try to explain it to you in simple terms.
Remember when you were younger when your mummy bought you a pet? (I'll use goldfish as an example) You can't stop thinking of your goldfish right?
When you are in school, you think of your goldfish, when you are bathing, you think of your goldfish, when you are eating, you think of your goldfish (other than thinking of eating your goldfish), even when you sleep, you dream about one day when a fairy will come down to make your goldfish be able to live outside water, so he can sleep with you.
Remember those times?
Thats an example of you having a crush on your goldfish.

But usually we humans have crushes on other humans, i used goldfish as an example for the sake of the minority "unique" ones out there, haha.

Anyway, thats the same for us (the goldfish example) !
When we have a crush, we think of the person/people/object/animal everywhere we go and everytime. When we are bored, stress, tired, joyful, sick, or even when we read about things such as floods in Jakarta, we think about our crush.
I know its hard to admit it, but you know that it is true!
I mean only when you're having a crush lar (perfect use of singlish here, haha).



Anyway, let me give you the true defination of crush with the help of dictionary.com

The defination of crush is "an intense but usually short-lived infatuation."
and the defination of infatuation is "A foolish, unreasoning, or extravagant passion or attraction."

Look at the keywords here, SHORT-LIVED, FOOLISH, UNREASONING & EXTRAVAGENT PASSION OR ATTRACTION.

See, now you believe in my goldfish example. haha.



I have alot more to blog about this topic, alot of serious stuff.
But since valentine's day is around the corner, i shall not spoil the mood first, will continue blogging part two of this topic.

By the way, in anticipation of curious questionings i will recieve in the future, i gotta say that i don't really have a crush right now.
Even if i do, i won't be indulging in this foolish, unreasoning, or extravagent passion or attraction.
So don't come up to me and asking me who my crush is, or why do i blog about this, do i have a crush etc, etc...
You'll see the true intentions of me blogging about this topic on my next post =D.



I would like to end off this post differently.
If you noticed, my blog have so little comments.
Not that i want to seek fame or anything like that, but i enjoy making my blog more interesting, it could be a place where you could share your point of view to me too.
So for this post, i would like all the readers out there to be SPONTANEOUS!!

Leave comments about at least ONE THING that you want your dream girl/guy/object to have or be or be.
OR, one situation whereby you want to be with your dream girl/guy/object.



For example, you always hope that one day you would "accidentally" fall of the bus steps. And "coincidentally", you dream guy (the guy you have a crush on) is behind you. So you experience abit pain for the moment (Like an old Chinese saying goes "First bitter, then sweet"). So your dream guy have to carry you home because you have a twisted ankle now.
Ooops, "coincidentally" you alighted at the wrong stop too, which happens to be two bus stops away from your house. And your dream guy somehow forgot about the existence of vehicles (like in many love drams) and decides to carry you all the way home. And when you reach hope, you "forgot" to bring your house keys, and "coincidentally" your whole family went abroad 2 hours ago and will be back only tomorrow. So out of compassion, your dream guy offers a stay at his house, and he "forgets" about the existence of vehicles again and carries you all the way home.

Something liddat. Of course, it does not need to be so detailed and i hope that truly there is no one out there with such a fantasy. Its scary.
So go leave a coment NOW. I don't mind if you're shy and leave the comment as anonymous.
I'll lead by example and leave one "anonymous" comment first, haha.

So lets get into the mood of valentine's day confession!!

plus, for all the single out there, you'll feel better to know that you're not the only one on earth with such wacky fantasies, haha.


This post has certain value in view of time due to the fun it brings. It does not have any value in view of eternity, but the 2nd post that is linked to this will be of great value.