The world today is a world growing cold in love.
People are seeking for love everywhere only to find out they've been finding it in the wrong places.
Many people think that marriage is the only solution, because when you're married to a person, that person has to "vow" to commit to you forever.
Which brings forth security and feelings of being loved.
But in this century, the divorcement rate in every country is escalating rapidly.
What is the cause for all these?
Or rather, which is the cause and which is the effect?
Is divorce an effect for the lack of love or is it the one that causes feelings of lack of love?
what else is linked to the lack of love in the world?
For now, i could think of two main effects..
The lack of love results in the development of either one of these two characteristics in our lives.
1) A rebellious attitude
2) Depression
It might be difficult to believe, but yes, the lack of love is manifested in such a way.
I shall talk more about it next time (due to my fatique gained from my final year project, i have to continue it another day), but for today, i want you to really spend some time thinking.
Do you have a lack of love?
Not just bgr, but love from parents, love from friends, or even love from yourself.. I'm sure that at least 80% or more will have a lack of love in a certain area of his/her life.
If you do, what form has it manifested as?
You have a rebellious attitude (pride) or some form of depression (feelings of unworthiness or insecurity, etc, etc..).
So identify the problem first.
I will update soon in more detail about what really are the exact causes of rebellion and depression, and the effects of the lack of love..
This post is more like a Pre-post for the up coming post.
5 comments:
hmmm... quite true.. many people, kids especially, lack the love from paremts and frenz and , therefore, became rebellious or develop low self-esteem...
(to add on) many people also as a result is emotionally shut down and is unable to fully express themselves to others..
update update ricky =D
Doctors sruff you with pills,parents do the same,even the few friends you have just tell you to get fixed,We f**em.They never wants thought that maybe I just needed a hug,or some kind words,even a good joke.No!All they ever give me is PILLS!Pills are not a substitute for human warmth you ASSHOLES!My point is,love and affenction are more important than giving xanax to people and than expect that all will miraculously be better.They might asswell give you cocain,it's still a drug.
Anonymous, I feel the same.
I see the question in this way: some people can live without real love. I felt that way in my early chilhood.
But the lack of love makes you break at some point, and now you are blocked, paralized, anhedonic, abulic...; like a car without petrol.
And you see the other "cars" that keep moving, and you feel so different...
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